So the orthodox recovery approach is scuppered.

So the orthodox recovery approach is scuppered. It’s like a man with a broken leg, vociferously denying it’s painful, or that he has a limp – the member is king, even when they’re obviously in deep trouble.  ‘recovery complaints’ that are not complained about. But we do have a duty to link the items complained about, to earlier ‘unseen’ problems – but only, and forever, with our child within’s consent. This is uphill work, since it is invariably coupled with prodigious resistance from the sufferer against doing any such thing – and there you have today’s recovery dilemma.